Devotion

Am I Being Selfish?

How many times do you tell yourself, “I’m not going to worry about anything today.”? Then within a matter of possibly seconds your mind starts whirling, the “How will I’s”, the “What if’s,” and the ever popular, “How am I ever…”.

I must admit, as hard as I try and as many times as I go to God and tell Him, “Okay Jesus today is the big day I stop worrying and totally trust you”, I too get these bothersome thoughts.

The Greek word, Merimnao means: to be anxious, to be troubled with cares and to look out for one’s own interests.

Hmm? When we worry about finances, our health, our children’s health and what will become of us in the future, are we being selfish? Should we not worry about these things? Aren’t these all serious worldly ideas to be concerned about every day?

Well, the Bible tells us “No”. Matthew 6:25-32 explains:

“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?  Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life? “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them.  

Continuing Matthew 6:33, “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”  As believers in Jesus Christ we are to put all our faith and trust in Him everyday for everything.

When we worry we are being selfish and also saying that we do not need the Savior we are claiming we believe in and call our Father. Ouch!

Oh how blessed we are that we have a loving, forgiving, and gracious God!

When those selfish, worrying thoughts start to trickle in there is a way out.

Confess our sins. Pray Psalm 139:23: “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.” Tell God exactly what you are worrying about. He already knows, but when we tell Him we feel so much better.

God will forgive us: “I sought the Lord, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears.” (Psalm 34:4)

We can be certain that absolutely nothing will ever separate us from our loving Father, who by the way, loved us first! Romans 8:39 reminds us of this Truth: “No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Finally, we can replace our anxious, worrisome thoughts with praises of thanksgiving from our hearts to our Heavenly Father who we have put ALL our Trust that He IS ALL SUFFICIENT!.

As our verse of the day reminds us, “We will have no fear of bad news OUR HEARTS ARE STEADFAST, TRUSTING IN THE LORD!” (my emphasis!)

Look Up, Let Go, Live Joy!

If you would like to dive deeper into praying, asking God to “Search Me”. I have been reading a fantastic book by Pastor Craig Groeschel titled, “Dangerous Prayers”. Let me just tell you I get nothing for recommending this book. I am currently in a Bible Study that is reading the book and finding the contents so profound and changing my prayer life in amazing ways I wanted to share it with my friends. You can buy the book at any of your favorite book sellers. Here is the Amazon link for you. You can also go to “My Favorite Websites” and buy the book through Proverbs 31. Again, I receive nothing for recommending this book.

5 thoughts on “Am I Being Selfish?”

  1. I found a prayer that I have on my bathroom mirror that begins; I raise my hands in praise to You o Lord and surrender my life to You today. Love the scriptures you used today to remind me to not worry but TRUST in the One who knows all and is all we need.

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  2. Thanks for sharing this amazing prayer with Living Joy Today! I think so many times, at least for me, the word surrender equals defeat. But when we are surrendering our lives and our will to Jesus it is such a time for praise! There is no defeat only gain! Thanks again for sharing! xoxo

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  3. the road to having faith, for me, started with this simple prayer…”God grant me the serenity to ACCEPT the things I cannot change, COURAGE to change the things I can, and WISDOM to know the difference.” it was the simplicity of the words and concept that really took hold in me. so did “keep it simple stupid.”

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  4. Oh girl I am also I the Bible study reading the same book!! It has encouraged me so much in my walk with Jesus just as your blog!! Love you

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